Don’t Change Yourself, Upgrade Yourself!

So from time to time we want to change a habit or adopt a new one. The thing is the process of change can be really hard, especially if you have to make a big change. When we are trying to make a change there is so much to get in the way of us succeeding. First of all we have…

Why Your Fantasies Can Make You Miserable!

When I was young I always wanted to be the richest man in Wales (I come from there! If you don’t know where that is, it is the country next to england look it up!) In fact I should say that I was totally convinced that I would become said richest man. Now that does not mean…

I Will Have My Vengeance! In This Life Or The Next!

Sorry, this article is all about being great has no relevance to the title. So I know that this sounds a bit like bait and switch but if you came here looking for vengeance then your shit out of luck. If you came to this looking for greatness then read on. I want to be the…

Your next thought might save your life.

I tell you what I’ve noticed, different thoughts have different levels of power. Power to raise you up power to bring you down. As much as thoughts have no real depth in the physical world they have a great deal of size and weight in the mental world. You see everything comes…

How To Meet New People Without Getting Told To F**K Off!

So it’s really hard to meet new people these days. Especially in person. More and more are we relying on electronic devices to provide a digital solution to our human connection needs. And hey sometimes that is a good thing. I mean lets be fair Facebook has allowed me and…

Drive A Stake Through The Heart Of Emotional Vampires!

The people in your life can be an amazing source of value to you. They provide fun, conversation, entertainment, drama, information, education. They give you highs and lows and sometimes take you on an emotional roller-coaster. Some add incredible value to your life and some…

How To Always Make A Good Decision!

Each and every one of us is constantly bombarded with the need to make decisions. Most of the times these decisions are trivial and every day things. What shall I have for lunch what color underwear shall i wear. Nothing important and very little bad can happen making these…

How To Avoid The Lie Of Perfection!

We have all been taught a lie. What is this lie i hear you ask. Well it is the lie of perfection. We are told in every endeavor that we must seek perfection in whatever we do. Be the best we can be. Well as much as there is some truth in this the reality is that blocks many…

You, Your Life And Winning The Kobayashi Maru!

If you are like most people then the game of life is unwinnable. Harsh but True. It’s the Kobayashi Maru.If you are unfamiliar with the Kobayashi Maru well it’s an idea from the Star Trek universe. For the non Sci-fi folk bear with me as the idea is more important than where…